‘No one does this alone’: Milwaukee seeks more foster parents and supporters

As children continue to enter foster care across Milwaukee, agencies working the front lines say the greatest need isn’t funding or policy promises, it’s people willing to open their homes. Especially to teenagers.
We spoke with Jakob Eisen, director of social services, and Karen Steinbach, treatment foster care supervisor, with La Causa’s Treatment Foster Care program, to understand what becoming and supporting foster parents can look like.
Shortage of foster families
Children placed in foster care range from newborns to young adults, sometimes remaining in care until age 21 or older if they are still in school.
Steinbach said what youths share is trauma because being removed from home, even for safety reasons, is itself traumatic.
“These kids come to us during the worst moments of their lives,” she said. “They need adults who are patient, empathetic and willing to stay even when things get hard.”
Data shows a desperate shortage in Milwaukee of people willing to take in adolescents.
In 2024, there was an average of 515 children aged 12 years or older in out-of-home care. Of these older children, 275 (53%) were placed in a family-like setting, 146 (28%) were placed in congregate care, and 94 (18%) were in other care.
Ninety percent of children aged 12 and under were placed in family-like care.
Steinbach said teenagers often cycle through dozens of placements, a history that can fuel mistrust, anger and difficult behaviors.
“There’s a myth that teens are harder or more dangerous,” she said. “But if you’ve been in 30 or 40 homes and every one of them asked you to leave, why would you believe the next one will be different?”
She said behaviors like running away, breaking property, withdrawing emotionally or acting out are often trauma responses, not defiance. And younger children show it, too.
Foster parents are asked to look past those behaviors.
“That’s the hardest part of the job,” Steinbach said. “And also the most important.”
What does it take to become a foster parent?
Becoming a foster parent is a serious commitment, and the licensing process reflects that.
Prospective families must pass background checks, provide references, complete home safety inspections, participate in interviews that explore everything from parenting experience to mental health history, and meet other state requirements.
“It’s personal,” Steinbach said. “We ask hard questions because we’re asking you to care for children who have experienced significant trauma.”
There are different levels of foster care. Treatment foster parents, who care for children with higher behavioral or emotional needs, receive additional training and support.
Eisen said most foster parents work full-time jobs. What helps them succeed as a foster parent is preparation and support from employers, family, friends and agencies themselves.
“We ask people upfront: Who’s your village?” Steinbach said. “Because no one does this alone.”
Removing stigmas of fostering
Some community members hesitate to engage with foster care because they believe the system “takes” children from families. Eisen said that perception misses critical context.
“No child is removed without legal authority,” he said. “Every case goes before a judge. There are statutory thresholds, multiple layers of review and ongoing court oversight.”
In most cases, he said, parents retain legal rights and decision-making authority. Foster care is intended to be temporary, with reunification as the primary goal whenever it can be done safely.
“We don’t want to keep kids,” Steinbach said. “The best outcome is getting them home.”
Their goal is to help foster parents work alongside birth families to support them as they complete court-ordered steps.
“When foster parents and birth parents can work together, kids do better,” she said. “And reunification happens faster.”
How you can help, without becoming a foster parent
Not everyone can foster, but Steinbach and Eisen stress that everyone can help.
Support can be as simple as providing respite care or babysitting, helping with school pickups or transportation, bringing meals or offering child care so foster parents can attend training.
“These small things are huge,” Steinbach said. “Sometimes a foster parent just needs an hour to grocery shop or take a shower.”
Community members can also help by challenging stigmas when they hear them, sharing accurate information and encouraging others to consider fostering.
“Even planting the seed matters. Most people think about fostering for years before they ever make the call,” Eisen said.
Prevention and support
While foster care agencies work daily to recruit and support families, leaders say long-term solutions lie in prevention. Investing in mental health care, addiction services, transportation, supervised visitation and family support can help keep children safely at home.
“If we could work ourselves out of a job, we would,” Eisen said. “But until then, we need people, not perfect people, just people willing to show up.”
For children in foster care, that willingness to “show up” can mean the difference between another disrupted placement and the first adult who truly stays in their lives.
For more information on becoming a foster parent, you can look here and here.
Jonathan Aguilar is a visual journalist at Milwaukee Neighborhood News Service who is supported through a partnership between CatchLight Local and Report for America.
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